Time Doesn’t Heal All Wounds

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In Psalm 32 David confessed that he had stubbornly hidden his sin with Bathsheba and his murder of Uriah, her husband and how it had made him physically miserable. He described it this way in vv. 3-4, “For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. Selah” (Psalm 32:3–4, ESV)

You see, time doesn’t heal all wounds, it just allows gangrene to set in and the poison to spread until it enters the blood stream and kills the heart.

Let me ask you, do you think you are somehow different? If you don’t deal with your anger it will turn to hatred and bitterness and it will corrode your heart.

Ephesians 4:26 says, “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger,” (Ephesians 4:26, ESV).

If you are a blood bought Christian, then you are a new creation in Christ Jesus. You have the Holy Spirit, and so you can call out to God and ask him to help you to forgive, and for him to put to death that sinful hatred and anger in your heart.

James 4:1-2 says, “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask.” (James 4:1–2, ESV).

Sometimes Christians read the “murder” part as hyperbole, as exaggeration about anger. Some read what James wrote and think that they will never let their anger go that far. But we are talking about an anger that is out of control, it begins small and then grows and becomes a monster that wages war.

John MacArthur said about this sort of growing hatred:

“Just think about something like hate; if you want to find out what hate does to people, go back to Genesis 4 and find out about Cain and see what hate did to Cain. If that isn’t a good enough lesson, go to Esau and watch hate drive a man through his whole lifetime. If that doesn’t satisfy you, go to the sons of Jacob and find out what hate did to those people, hate toward Joseph and the results of it. If that doesn’t do it, go find a man named Saul and see what it did to him. He hated David, and it drove him to the place where he killed himself. If that isn’t convincing enough, find Absalom and see what hate did to him in 2 Samuel 13. If that doesn’t convince you, read the book of Esther and find out how hatred drove a man named Haman to be hanged of his own gallows.”

Anger that is not dealt with quickly is a toxin in our heart and it poisons us until we repent and confess it. Shoving it down deeper isn’t an answer. David said in Ps 32:1-2, “Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. Blessed is the man against whom the Lord counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit.” (Psalm 32:1–2, ESV)

If you struggle with bitterness and anger, take it to the Lord in prayer. As him to reveal to you how it has grown in your heart so you can see where all of its roots have led—in your speech, your attitude, your conduct, your worship, your relationships. Let the Lord show you so that you can be done with it completely and you can have that blessing David wrote about.

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[1]https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/1794/paul-before-festus-part-1

Help for our darkest seasons

despair“In our darkest seasons nothing has kept us from desperation but the promise of the Lord: yea, at times nothing has stood between us and self-destruction save faith in the eternal word of God. When worn with pain until the brain has become dazed and the reason well-nigh extinguished, a sweet text has whispered to us its heart-cheering assurance, and our poor struggling mind has reposed upon the bosom of God. That which was our delight in prosperity has been our light in adversity; that which in the day kept us from presuming has in the night kept us from perishing.”[1]

[1]Charles Spurgeon,Psalm 119:92; Treasury of David, 5:316

Dealing with Sin-First Samuel 15

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I recently read of a young executive that was constantly seen in the office restroom fiddling with his mouth. It turns out that he had a problem with his tooth that kept bothering him. To alleviate the pain, he used a numbing gel regularly to make the pain go away.
 
Finally, he couldn’t stand the pain any longer and he went in to see his dentist. Once the doctor had examined his tooth, he let the young man know that because of his delay, the gum surrounding the tooth had become severely infected and that in order to stop the damage, he would need to remove several teeth around the infected one and fit the executive with a set of partial dentures. All because he failed to deal with the problem when it was small!
 
In First Samuel 15 we see that sin is destructive and that if it isn’t dealt with right away, like a rotting tooth, it affects more people and becomes more painful. What is needed is a return to God and a spiritual heart check.
 
Saul was instructed by the Lord to destroy God’s enemies, the Amalekites, and to leave nothing. Saul instead chose to keep the king alive as a trophy, and to take the livestock as the spoils of war. In doing so, Saul rebelled against the direct orders of God and rejected His authority. When confronted with his sin by Samuel, first he lied, then he excused his behavior, then he passed blame to the people, then finally accepted blame but quickly moved on to save face before the people.
 
We can see from Saul’s rebelliousness against God that often times the effects and consequences of sin reach far beyond the sinner. It is like the consequence of a restaurant cook that does not wash his hands after using the restroom. The filth on his hands that once was personal effects all those who are around his and the innocent suffer from his sin.
The lesson that we can learn from this is that we need to deal with sin quickly and honestly. Sin is so destructive not only because the damage it does to the one wronged, but because it can spread like gangrene and hurt others as well. We need to be honest about our sins (confession) and repent of them, both before God and man.

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Why Doctrine Is Worth Fighting For

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A few years ago I read this headline in my local newspaper. As a pastor, it grabbed my attention immediately. It said: INSTRUMENTS STOLEN FROM 5 MANHATTAN BEACH CHURCHES

It told the story of how 5 local churches had been robbed in the period of one week. They took guitars, keyboards, ukuleles, drums, a tambourine, a mixing machine, audio and video equipment, projectors, laptop computers, microphones and speakers. They cleaned out those churches.

The worst part is that it seems that the thieves got access to the church through unlocked windows and doors. They just walked right in!

I would like to suggest to you that as sad as it is that a church was robbed partially due to its own negligence, there is a greater danger that is facing the church—the danger of giving up the foundational doctrines that under gird our faith. And much like these robberies in the South Bay, the church and each of us as members of the body of Christ are too often leaving to windows and doors open and allowing the thieves in.

The book of 1 Timothy is rightly considered a Pastoral Epistle, designed to instruct Pastors in leading Christ’s church. But that is not its only purpose. 1Tim 3:15 gives us the undergirding reason for us to look at this book-To know how we should behave in God’s House.

In this post I would like to focus on one aspect of this behavior—our attitude toward guarding the church’s doctrinal integrity.

“This charge I entrust to you, Timothy, my child, in accordance with the prophecies previously made about you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, holding faith and a good conscience. By rejecting this, some have made shipwreck of their faith, among whom are Hymenaeus and Alexander, whom I have handed over to Satan that they may learn not to blaspheme.” 1Timothy 1:18-20 ESV

From this passage I want to share with you three reasons why true doctrine is worth fighting for so that we might join in the battle for truth.

It Is A Precious Trust (v. 18)

We put alarms on cars, homes, & banks, but not on trash dumpsters, junked cars and abandoned homes. We guard what we value. We protect what we cherish. In 1Timothy 1:15-17, Paul gives us the essence of the Gospel message and his own personal example of its effect upon his life. Inherent in Paul’s words was the assumption that the truth of God’s Word is so valuable that it needs to be guarded. Not a passive guarding, like those security guards you see who only have a flashlight to stop an armed robber. No, Paul calls Timothy to wage war with the enemies of the cross—he calls this war “good” or “noble.” So what do we need to protect the gospel from three danger:

Guard It Against Being Watered Down: “for I did not shrink from declaring to you the whole counsel of God” (Acts 20:27). Paul didn’t fear the opinions of man so that he tailored his words to fit what they wanted to hear. He told them what the Ephesian church what they needed to hear.

Guard It Against Being Changed: “I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting him who called you in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel— not that there is another one, but there are some who trouble you and want to distort the gospel of Christ” (Gal 1:6-7). A different gospel is really no gospel at all. We need to guard against the subtle and not-so-subtle changes that are assaulting the Gospel.

Guard It Against Being Set Aside: “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.” (2Tim 4:3-4). Moving past the Gospel to something that is better? That was the attitude in Paul’s day, and many today hold the same sentiment.

D.A. Carson reminds us of this concern when he writes,

I fear that the cross, without ever being disowned, is constantly in danger of being dismissed from the central place it must enjoy, by relatively peripheral insights that take on far too much weight. Whenever the periphery is in danger of displacing the center, we are not far removed from idolatry.” (The Cross & Christian Ministry, 38).

This is a most subtle danger, and this makes it all the more insidious. It does not ask the gospel to be watered down or changed, it just adds on to and covers over the gospel and claims to be better than God gave it to us. This was what the Pharisees did. Jesus said “You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men.” (Mark 7:8)

It like when I was in high school and my dad gave me this ’71 VW beetle. I loved reading the magazine Hot VW’s and seeing the way people “improved” on the original designs. Some guys reworked their cars so much that in reality they weren’t even VW Beetles anymore. They may have had some pieces of the original car, but most of the original was set aside for an after-market part.

The same can and is done to the gospel. People try to make it look cooler and more appealing. They remove sin and hell or add cussing and tattoos. Others add man-made rules a requirement for heaven. These are all cheap add-ons to the real Gospel and it impedes its work.

There are other ways that the Gospel is attacked, but here we have three strategies used by our enemy in order to tone down the message of the cross: Water it down, change it, or set it aside.

How can you personally guard this precious trust? By knowing the gospel, by proclaiming the gospel and by living the gospel. It is the word preached and taught that guards us from being tossed about in the waves of false doctrine and lying schemes. So:

Get to church. Just because your body is there doesn’t mean your heart and mind are.  God has given us teachers to help keep us grounded in good, solid doctrine.

 Guard Your Heart. Just because a preacher is funny or a book is popular or a YouTube clip of a speaker gets a million hits doesn’t mean it’s spiritually healthy. Learn discernment so that you can avoid being another casualty of false teaching.

Grow Theologically. You may not be a Bible or theology scholar, but if you are a Christian you have the Holy Spirit as your teacher. You need to grow deeper roots in your faith so that you will see the next guy that comes along with a new discovery from the Bible a mile away.

False teachers produce false teachers. Their heresy spreads like gangrene producing more and more ungodliness. Those like Hymenaeus (v. 20) are not satisfied with keeping their false doctrines to themselves. They are impelled to spread them amidst the church.

Therefore the church needs to guard against these wolves in sheep’s clothing. This might seem harsh in a church culture that doesn’t like to confront sin, but it is a merciful act.

  1. It stops the influence of the heresy.
  2. It removes the divine protection that the false teachers enjoy inside the church so that he can be dealt with by Satan with the hope that he would be driven back to God (1Cor 5:5).
  3. It seeks restoration-learning not to blaspheme. This is corrective, not primarily punitive.

We’re talking about the eternal destiny of people’s souls.

Truth matters. Failure to guard the truth of the Gospel is to declare that the soul saving Gospel really isn’t that important.

Truth matters. Failure to guard the Gospel will result in a person being tossed around in a spiritual rip tide.

Truth matters. Failure to guard the truth of the Gospel will result in a shipwrecked faith and false teaches that will spread the disease even further, damning countless souls to hell.

True Doctrine Is Worth Fight For Because It Gives Divine Direction (v. 19)

For the faith, cp. 6:12.-How can we wage the good warfare when we no longer continue to believe the truth?

  1. How can we continue fighting when we no longer have a good conscience about what we believe and of whom we believe?
  2. When we lose these two, the enemy has dismantled us and made us useless.
  3. Paul says that those who had abandoned the faith have no stability for their conscience and became like a ship without a rudder for direction.
  4. Without being anchored to the truth of Jesus Christ, we wander into uncharted waters and grave dangers. This is why we need pastors and teachers:
    1. Application: When we abandon absolute truth as revealed in the Bible, we are susceptible to spiritual and doctrinal drift. How can you avoid this danger?
  1. True Doctrine Is Worth Fight For Because The Alternative Is Unthinkable (v.20)
    1. What ultimately happens to those who reject the faith and follow different doctrines, myths and speculations?
    2. Using two men as examples, Paul shows Timothy and us how serious it is when someone abandons the faith.
    3. Although the exact nature of what Alexander taught is not too clear, Hymenaeus’ involvement in revealed in 2Tim 2:16-18:
    1. Paul’s solution to this is radical surgery. To keep this gangrene of heresy from growing, Paul says in 1:20 that he needs to cut them away from the church in order to teach them not to blaspheme.
    1. Illustration: Not too long ago, there was a news story about a business that called itself the California Alternative High School who targeted people who had not finished high school and wanted to complete there education. They advertised on TV and many immigrants sought out these schools in hopes of bettering their situation in the US through education.
    1. The Truth matters. Doctrine is worth fighting for.
    2. Brothers and Sisters, guard the precious trust of the Gospel given to all of us.